Recently, I had a very interesting conversation with a very dear friend of mine about an article she read that posed the following question:
“If you were 100% sure that you wouldn’t meet anyone in your lifetime, would you live your life differently?”
Admittedly, it peaked my interest. I pondered the question for a few minutes with some pretty intense mix of feelings. On one hand, I could see how someone may do things differently to live their perfect life without having to wonder is he out there?, but on the other hand, the question irritated me. It didn’t feel right.
So allow me to suggest a new question.
“What if you were 100% certain that your perfect partner would show up when you were already living life to the fullest and standing strong in your own Divinity?”
Doesn’t that feel better?!
In my last article, I wrote about a favorite exercise of mine called Be, Do, and Have. By completing this exercise, it helps you explore who you want to Be, what you want to Do, and what you would like to Have to make that fabulous life a reality? This is where it starts. It starts by getting clear on what we want out of life!
We often think that if we find a partner, they will invigorate us and replace what we may feel is missing. Or we think the exact opposite, if we allow someone in our lives, they will derail our dream life. Admittedly I fell into this category. I loved my life but knew I wanted to enhance it even larger, louder, and brighter! What if he didn’t like that or put a monkey wrench in my plans? Would I walk away? Would I adjust? Would I settle? Then I came to the conclusion, do we really have to choose?! What if we can have it all?
If you desire an intimate soul connection when you are 100% in your Truth, how could the Universe possibly skip over it?! I don’t believe it can! Just living by the “Universal Laws” reminds us on how to receive our hearts desires by getting clear on what we want and step into alignment with that desire. Ask and you shall receive! Now that feels better…much, much better!
Now here’s the tricky part: How do we get to that sweet spot of trusting the Universe? Trusting that this person will show up exactly when needed. Let’s start by asking a few questions to see where we currently are in the bliss-meter of life, shall we? Answer the following questions with yes, no, or kinda:
If you answered ‘no’ or ‘kinda’ to at least one question, then there is some work for you to do to help you connect with your Truth, your Divine Self. This is actually good news. It’s about creating a beautiful, joyous life within yourself. That’s where the peace resides. This is where the journey begins.
Tips to Living in Your Truth
I’ll ask the question again: “What if you were 100% certain that your perfect partner would show up when you were already living life to the fullest and standing strong in your own Divinity?”
I would love to hear your answers, so be sure to comment below! Also, join me in person at the Journey to Perfect Love workshop on April 7th! Great opportunity to see where you actually are on the journey to love!